Getting married was always part of our plan — we just didn’t expect to do it from different time zones.

When you’re in a relationship separated by distance, especially with military deployment, everything gets more complicated. Time zones, travel restrictions, planning — even picking a date can feel stressful.

We wanted to start our life together. But a traditional wedding just wasn’t realistic.

Then we found out we could have a legal virtual wedding.

At first, we thought it was too good to be true. But after researching, we learned that states like Utah allow fully virtual marriages — with a licensed officiant and official paperwork read more — and they’re recognized across the U.S..

We decided to go for it.

Here’s how it worked for us:

• We submitted our documents and filled out a quick form.
• We scheduled our wedding time with an officiant who was licensed for online ceremonies.
• We invited our small circle to join via Zoom.
• And when the day came, we logged on, said our vows, and just like that — we were married.

I said “I do” from my living room. My spouse-to-be said it from their military base.

It was emotional. It was simple. And it was ours.

The officiant guided us through everything. The ceremony was intimate and sweet. And we received our certified marriage certificate the same day — no courthouse, no plane tickets, no headaches.

Since then, we’ve used our online marriage to handle insurance updates, and every agency has approved it — no issues at all.

If you’re trying to make your relationship official from afar, don’t wait. Online marriage is legal, and it’s a modern way to start your future — even if you’re not in the same place.

We’re proof that marriage can happen anywhere — and that what matters most is the person on the other end of the call.